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Tuesday, April 03, 2007

How to control your temper ….

There once was a boy with a very bad character. His father gave him a box of spikes and told him to hammer one into the garden fence every time he lost his patience and got into an argument with someone.

The first day the boy hammered 37 spikes into the fence.Over the next few weeks he began learning to control himself, and the number of spikes he had to hammer diminished day by day. He had discovered that exercising self control was a lot easier than hammering spikes. Finally the day arrived when the boy didn't hammer any spikes into the fence. He went to see his father and told him that he hadn't had to nail any spikes that day at all.His father told him to pull a spike out of the fence everyday he didn't lose temper.Days passed, and finally the boy was able to inform his father that all the spikes had been removed. The father walked with hisson over to the fence and said: "My son, you have done well,but look at all the holes in the fence. It will never be thesame as it was before. "When you fight with someone and say terrible things, you create wounds just like these holes. You can stick a knife into someone and then pull it out, but the scar will always be there.No matter how many times you say you're sorry, the scar will remain."A wound caused by words is as bad as a physical wound.
All Human on this earth are like you … your brothers and sisters , Friends they are all like precious jewels, they make you smile, they encourage you, they're there to help you and listen to you when you're in need.>They offer you support, and open their hearts to you.
Yes there are some who are more in need of support than you… they lost the direction a little … they doing and saying things … out of a corrupted program…/mind… look through that program… see the truth behind.. see your brother … your sister your friend behind all that fos and fighting… you know that jealousy, greed and primitive behavior is based on fear … didn’t you feel that they need your clarity and understanding … instant forgiveness and unconditional love … the same love God has for you… at all times … no matter what you did wrong….?
.................... "You don't live on what you eat, but only on what you>digest. This is true for your mind as well as for your body.">Benjamin Franklin


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